The Event

It all begins with an event. An accident, a phone call from someone you love, a text from a friend, an email at work. Then you go to that place you always go when you find out your life will never be the same again.

This is definitely the voice in my head. Finding your way forward isn’t a new human phenomenon Kelli. Millions of us go through it every day. Perhaps your biological age is a factor in the decisions you make from this point…..but perhaps it isn’t. Maybe there is a universal decision everyone has to make……”what am I going to spend my energy on every day?”

I’m asking myself what I really care about because my perspective has changed. Seemingly important details, worries and concerns are falling away. Because I’m a good person, which is one of my core beliefs, I wonder what this new perspective will bring. I’m letting go of things I used to care about. I’m afraid I won’t care about people in the same way, that I’ll lose my empathy as I put my peace and personal fulfillment first.